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Offline scarpetta73

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Hello!
« on: August 29, 2007, 08:29:43 PM »
Hey everyone!  I found this site through Gumtree, and thought it sounded really good, so I've joined!  I'm Abbey, and I've suffered from depression, panic attacks, generalised anxiety, agrophobia and claustrophobia for approximately the last four years, although looking back on it, it had probably been going on since my late teens.  I'm currently on Prozac with the occasional Valium, but apart from prescribing medication to me, I haven't found my doctor or local mental health team especially helpful.  I have been an outpatient at Mill View, but again, didn't find the doctors I saw there particularly understanding, although I have nothing but praise for the community nurses there.  I was sacked from my job a few months ago, due to not being able to go out of the house to get to work.  One of the worst things I've found about this type of illness is the complete lack of understanding from the majority of people - people who can just wake up and walk out of the house without it being a big issue for them.  I've got a great network of friends, but even some of them have begun to lose patience with me when I've cancelled yet another night out.  I've rambled on far too much now, but just wanted to introduce myself to everyone here.

Offline Noisy

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Re: Hello!
« Reply #1 on: August 30, 2007, 09:49:58 AM »
Hi Abbey, Welcome to the forum!

Thanks for being one of the first posters here. I feel the same as you, My problems seemingly started with one catastrophic set of panic attacks but I can now look back and see that the seed were sown many years before.

I'm sorry to hear that you were sacked because of your anxiety. It's a shame that more people can't understand the true impact that it has on our lives. Most of my friends seem to understand that it's a serious issue just because of the change in my behaviour. My Mum is pretty sympathetic but my Dad thinks that I should "get off my lazy backside and get a job".

It's good that you've got some friends. Don't be too hard on them. It's really hard for most people to truly understand our problems.

Take care,
Martin. :)
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Offline Capricorn

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Re: Hello!
« Reply #2 on: October 14, 2007, 05:37:32 PM »
Hi Abbey I just read your message and I do sympathise with what you have been going through.I have suffered from anxiety, depression and also OCD and its all pretty crippling and hard for a lot of people to understand. Like you I have many lovely friends and a wonderful son but some days I struggle just to get out of bed. I have a pretty low self image and have also been in lots of physical pain and tiredness which doesnt help, I suppose its all connected. Im glad I found this site as it makes you realise just how many people suffer with all this. If you would like to contact me my email is:eli.ward@tiscali.co.uk, best wishes sent to you...Eli x