Hi y'all,
I'm also hoping to come along on Wednesday.......intending for 3 weeks now, keep trying!
Got to agree with Houserock about the anxiety when out in town. Have hardly ventured in this year, tricky. Similar feelings of spotlight on me -as if anyone's blimmin looking at some anonymous middle-aged woman. I feel judged, even though I know it's bo***cks. I want to be invisible sometimes. I've even been taking my car on short trips -which I think sucks, cos I've always been an environmentalist - but I feel safe & unseen in the car. Metal armour?
Gonna make a comment that may fall flat.......
I know nothing was intended, & the pun was a good one, I snickered despite myself....BUT the o out of country........call me odd, but for heterosexuals, (& of course, i don't know yr sexuality) I thought er, lady-gardens are to be adored, admired, revered,...enjoyed (enough!), yet c**t is used as a derogatory word all the time. Funny old world.
teep